Category 1: The Natural Worker Bee
These women are natural worker bees who wake up
early, get the day going with ease, and just work, work, work, all day long,
until the second they go to bed. Either with or without caffeine, they just work and get their jobs done. They seem
to have no need for pre-planning or scheduling; they already know everything that
is about to happen, and work accordingly.
Category 2: The Non-Natural Worker Bee
These women are just
not natural worker bees. It’s hard to get going in the morning, and hard to
keep going during the day. Sometimes, if not all the time, they need caffeine
and some motivation and/or incentive, pre-planning, and even strict scheduling.
It’s hard to stay focused and hard to get things accomplished. Extra prayer on
this matter may also be required.
I admit that I am in Category number 2. I am fully aware
that I need to take extra steps each day to make myself into more like Category
number 1. How I pray and pray that I be more like a natural worker bee.
I find myself a little out of focus and in the habit of
procrastinating. Ugh! I’m the kind of
person who thinks, “What a beautiful day out today; I wonder what Heaven will
be like; what’s going to happen tomorrow; what’s for dinner next week…” When I
catch myself in those dreamy thoughts, I say to myself, “Focus!”
So, I’m going to share some of the ways that I try to make
myself into an efficient worker woman, how I force my mind to “set out to
accomplish” first thing in the morning, and not laze around in bed fighting the
urge to stay in my PJ’s. If you categorize yourself as Category number 2 as
well, you might want to try what I try at home, maybe you’ll find that my
strategies work for you too!
The Schedule
Scheduling what needs to be done in a day, I find, is a
fantastic way to lay everything out on the table. Some people make a schedule
fit into a monthly format, whereas I make mine to fit into a daily format. What
I mean by this is I make my schedule to fit into a “what needs to be done per
day” list.
I start it off with “Monday”, or whatever day it is, and
make a list of things that are going to happen, going from the most basic
things like, “Wake Up, Get Dressed, Personal Hygiene” to more specific things
like, “Review Shapes and Patterns, Marinate Chicken, Windex Windows”. I do
sometimes find myself making a big list, with basic things, homemaking things, and
homeschooling things. Or I make separate lists for each.
Depending on how energetic I feel, I’ll either make a few
daily schedules at once, or I’ll make it the night before, or on the morning
of. I like to use Microsoft Word to draft them, that way I can save them and
re-use the existing format. But I’ve heard of ladies using dry-erase boards or
chalkboards to draw up their schedules. Whatever works best for you!
The Journal
I keep a daily journal, and a prayer journal (or list). I
don’t use my computer for either of these things - I use my computer enough,
without having to add journal entries and such.
I love stationary. Things like cute notebooks, fancy pens,
stickers and colorful paperclips. And so having a handwritten journal and
prayer list feels more personal and almost in-depth when I use my pretty books
and pens. It sounds a bit dorky, but it’s true.
I take the time to write out what I accomplished, what I
could have done better, what I did great, where I slacked off, my feelings and
thoughts, what could have happened, etc. I find it keeps my mind on track for
the next day, and my thoughts in order.
The Hop
I don’t wake up to an alarm clock, at least not an electric
one that sits on my nightstand. My kids are my alarm clock. The second I hear one
of their voices, I hop out of bed, and get into my daily routine. The schedule I
draw out helps me keep my daily tasks in check, because it’s all too easy for
me to say, “Nah, I don’t need to do this today”. Like working out, for example!
When I see my kiddos first thing in the morning, I have a
visual reminder of one of the reasons why I stay at home. Besides the fact that
the Bible says I should work at home, seeing my darlings puts extra meaning
into why I do what I do.
Why should I waste their childhood by sitting around and
letting the day go by without accomplishing anything useful? Why turn the TV on
for them when I could be spending my time with them? I’m here to teach them, to
raise them up, to demonstrate to them how a Christian home works, to school
them, to give their lives a Christian foundation. If I am not motivated enough
to get things done around my home, how will they ever find it within themselves
to be motivated later in their lives? With all these things in mind, I put my
inhibitions aside and hop to it.
So, as much as I may not be a natural worker bee, I try my
hardest to be a worker bee in general. I work towards being that busy woman,
getting all these different things done with ease.
Outside of these three things I utilize to help me almost on
a daily basis, I ask God to help me. I pray a lot about my natural tendencies,
that they may be influenced and made to mirror the Proverbs 31 woman. That I
may be all that God has made me to be, according to His Will. That I may set
out to accomplish what needs to be accomplished in a day, and even more still.
I am such a category 2!! Thanks for these ideas, I've been trying to get on a better routine lately. I know I need to replace some bad habits (internet distractions...) with some better ones (more Bible study!)
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome Ashley ;) I have bad habits too. All too often I go on my computer before I get anything else done, so I had to put my foot down and think of something, lol.
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